Blame myself, if someones forget me. There must be some mistakes, such as I keep some distance too far or I quarrel with the ones. If I want someone to think of me all the time I must make him/her closed to me, even he/her is good or bad. Going to see people and having good talk are important. Even I come from far away, I can be the close one by seeing him/her everyday. Therefore, if I understand this fact, I won't be hurt, when someones forget me. It's me to approach someones, I, afterward, will not wait for anyone coming to see me.
There was a story about an old man went to sit at the lake bank where a girl was swimming in the lake everyday. One day, he asked the girl if she was afraid of a crocodile. The girl said she was not afraid of crocodile because it never came but she was afraid of an old man, he came everyday. [ Just a joke ]
The one who never talk could get less advatage than the one with good talk. The successful working persons usually have good talk. They are intelligent, good memory and talk in good ways. The leaders' speech will be loud, clear and good contents. No sarcasm and no criticism. Never hear the successful ones talk about people in a bad way. And when the people listen to the sucessful ones, people will like them because of good talk. They will treat the listeners as important as they respect. If anyone has a habit of less talking, he/she should find the appropriate jobs which do not reqire talking such as technologist, doctor, writer, etc. The best investors need to have good talk as well. Don't be shy, keep talking in good ways.
How to respect the listeners, I used to know a man. He remembered the names of their colleages and had good memory with them by mentioning while he was talking. Giving a chance to the listeners talked and he listened and accepted their idea by responding. Treated the people being leaders in different ways. Not one man's show. Didn't hate, didn't love didn't be close to special one. Everyone were important equally. If one wanted to be close to anyone, didn't let anyone know. These were my behaviour when I worked for the government many years ago.
Now, I am staying home and looking back to my past. I hope these written notes will be useful to the youngs, particularly my children if they read these articles. I can not go back to the past but the young generations who read these articles will transfer these experience and represent me in their generaton. Chavalvut.
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