How to be successful.

I have three children, boy, girl, and boy. Their names are Bim, Beau and Ben. They all are working in different fields. Their ages are 29,27 and 23 years old. They now live far away from each other. Like other fathers in the world, I wish my children to be settle down and healthy. Yesterday, I got a call from the youngest son, he asked how his brother was. I was glad that my children cared for each other. I just finished reading about a family, the history book of an long age lady who had a very nice life with her children. Now she passed away with the age over 90. This family is one of the richest families in Thailand.
The parents[the lady and her husband] migrated from China long time ago. First coming, they had stayed with a relative[uncle] and worked for him until they could provide some money to buy one piece of land and seperated from the relative. They had 8 children[no vasectomy in the old day] and the first child who was the main pole of the family passed away not long after his father. The father had died at the age of 51. The first three children had not got high education whereas they had to help family working. The mother was the leader who was strict to the daily responsibility of everyone and cooked for the family and farm workers. Later they could invest in an agro based factory and expanded more factories to the other areas including to China. Now, their business are consist of farms, many agro-based factories with many production lines for utilizing all raw materials and a few modern big hospitals. The lady got about 51 grand children who have been in many business and studying.
From reading the book, I found some points which should be mentioned here. First, in the family affair, they loved each other. The older 2 brothers and one sister did not go to school but were responsible for the family income until their youngers could be able to learn. Second, everyone had to get some responsibility since being young. They had got works to do after studying. And third, they saved a lot until they could expand the business.
For my family, it is too late to do anything because each one are apart. When they were young, I worked for the government and tried hard. My children stayed home and had no hard work to do except studying. We had no family business. I just hope that the children know I have nothing, a little sum of money has gone except wishing them to achieve in their lives by working hard and be responsible for themselves, friends and family[if any]. Chavalvut