In the old day, when we saw a person, we said hello and talked to them. Everybody were brothers-sisters, friends, or uncles-aunts. Now, why don't we follow this good way? Why we walk quietly with angry faces and don't look at the people around. We don't have to pay, just only look at them, smile and greet them. Don't care about people old mistakes or bad things, be ready to forgive even the cases can not be forgotten. Just keep them in the deeper mind.
We don't want to be a loner, self centered, and self help without cooperation. If we are, we will be tired and easy to depress.
If we want to change. When we see people, look at their eyes and smile. Say hi. And you will have friends and good mood. In 1971, I used to live with 10 american families in the US. under the International Farm Youth Exchange Programme. When I was there and met people on the roads or anywhere, they said hi to me and said to others too. When they saw the car stopped on the road side, they asked if the broken car needed help. It is a lovely tradition.
I wish all people are friendly, generous,and polite. Be happy to give but not interested to receive. The more you give, the more you gain. The word "gain" in this case may not be the same with the thing you give. We may gain happiness, pride, love, and good memory by giving, even we don't expect it. This is a point in buddhist principle.
When I was young, there were always guests came to our house. My job was to serve drinks. If there was anyone came to see one in the family, I would stay with and talk to them. Besides, I would help anyone in the family, if I could. So far,I have assisted everyone anything in which I can do.
My children, the friendly people mostly are successful in their careers. They will go to the top in life. They will know many people and the people will help or promote them. If you want to change your field of work, you must know the people in different fields you want to learn. And if you are close to them, then you can do anything in the wider areas. But if you don't be-friend with other people, how you know about the new job and get the new information for an advantage. I hope that you don't want to repeat the old job all lives. Please be friendly.
Family is important too. You live in your family, you must make them happy with you. Talk to them, say "hi, how are you?" Help them in the family by your volunteer. Don't let anyone ask you to help. You just offer help. And keep good relation with the family. You do more than the others. Be patient, the more you do the more you receive from them. That is "love"
This is the thing I have thought at time. I would like my children to follow my ways. I should be the good example in terms of my career and social behaviour. Since children have left home, I had nothing to give but my guidance and wish them being loved by people around and getting achieved in lives. Chavalvut Chainuvati
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