We like to buy some of valuable stuff which we are interested in such as jewelry, wrist watches, gold chains, etc. These stuff make us good look and we are proud and happy when we wear them. So, people save them as the private collection which mostly are expensive. Nevertheless, there are more valuable things inside, if we know how to use them. Please read the following paragraph.
The best decoration on your face is " a big smile". The job which giving good return is "helping the others". The most happiness you can get is "giving". The deadly weapon which we have to keep and never take it out is "speaking badly about the others". The great energy accumulating is "love". Our great loss is "self ruin". The big problem we have to conquer is "a fear". And the best sleeping pill is "peace in mind". [translated from an e-mail]
When I was studying in the UK, I found a postcard on a sale rack at a souvenir store. The words in the postcard really impressed me. They were:- "Set your sight high, believe in yourself, and get going. Experience and skill come from the doing" Therefore, if we want to go further, we have to do or start doing something. If we just do nothing, what will happen next, nothing.
I have neither jewelry, gold, expensive watch, nor expensive car. But I have friends. What else more I need in this world. Family is number one, then friends, food, and fully good health. In every evening, I'd like to have a company with friends and a glass of drink, making me a beautiful world. Chavalvut Chainuvati
วันอังคารที่ 29 มีนาคม พ.ศ. 2554
วันศุกร์ที่ 25 มีนาคม พ.ศ. 2554
Lives are not ours. Everything in the world are nature
There are many opinions about lives. Many people think of lives after death, going to the heaven, or returning back to the next lives, up to the doing, good or bad they are in this lives. They must go to hell if they commit some bad things. This is some belief.
I believe that, we are either good or bad, could reflect to us in this life, don't have to wait for other life. And also, they may not be reflect to us but they reflect to our children later when they grow up, such as if a child wants to work in the same office with his father and he gets a warm welcome because of his father's good performance before his coming. Other example, if one do some bad things, become poor, his child will recieve bad because of being poor too. I also believe that we are lucky or unlucky depend on our good or bad performance too. One example, there was a survey of the first prize lottery winners about 10 years ago and found that most winners were the good people who like to give or donate to the others. Therefore, when I get the bad things at the moment, I like to think back to my past and try to remind that what I have done and make me get these bad things now.
Lives are not ours. one is born, become a baby, later, the babyhood die and change to be a child, then the childhood die and then to be an adult, an oldie and then go to the end of life. From baby, child, adult, oldie, the image of different peroids also change, as well as mentality, idea, etc. All characters and looks change completely due to the environment and body growth and they can not get back to the beginning until the end as said above. Then next lives in next generations exit and circulate as the same procedure. The generation in the next 1,000 years may look completely different from this generation because of variation of natures and genetics.
What I am trying to say is that lives are not ours. Nothing are ours. They belong to nature. We will not own any property permanently because we have to leave them one day. The things which can remain to the next generation is our good doing while we are alive in the world. Then try to live longer in this world by practising good things for life and society. Let our goodness remain as the positve memory to our children. They are such as giving, helping, offering, forgiving, thinking positively etc. The great things in our lives are forgiveness and giving. For example, you forgive a man who kill your lover or the army give lives to their nation. Teach our children too.
If you have a cellular phone which can be used generally, that you are happy enough, but if you have a second one which is the best model, this time you won't be happy because you may want more or a better model again. Other case, you are survived with a good family, a moderate condition of house and car with some money for a living and saving, by which every family member are in good health. This is a normal life, and it is called happiness [happy to be normal]. On the contrary,if your dream is more than you can made, you have to work harder, stay at the office every day and night and are not close to the family again until get serious illness which is hard to be treated or to recovered. Finally in this case, one thing you want to make a wish, is coming back to the normal life as being before. These two stories teach us to stop our demand. Be happy with things we can have and don't demand a thing that is too far to get by capability. Do stop excess demanding. Lead your life with things you can obtain intelligently. This does not mean to stop wishing to get progress in life but stop trying to obtain too over luxury which bring trouble. If you have enough money to go to Hawaii that is a heaven to get there, don't waste your time to wait for extending serious work until time is not provided, only for getting more and more money. You may never go to Hawaii because of postponement. Just go to Hawaii and have fun.
I believe that, we are either good or bad, could reflect to us in this life, don't have to wait for other life. And also, they may not be reflect to us but they reflect to our children later when they grow up, such as if a child wants to work in the same office with his father and he gets a warm welcome because of his father's good performance before his coming. Other example, if one do some bad things, become poor, his child will recieve bad because of being poor too. I also believe that we are lucky or unlucky depend on our good or bad performance too. One example, there was a survey of the first prize lottery winners about 10 years ago and found that most winners were the good people who like to give or donate to the others. Therefore, when I get the bad things at the moment, I like to think back to my past and try to remind that what I have done and make me get these bad things now.
Lives are not ours. one is born, become a baby, later, the babyhood die and change to be a child, then the childhood die and then to be an adult, an oldie and then go to the end of life. From baby, child, adult, oldie, the image of different peroids also change, as well as mentality, idea, etc. All characters and looks change completely due to the environment and body growth and they can not get back to the beginning until the end as said above. Then next lives in next generations exit and circulate as the same procedure. The generation in the next 1,000 years may look completely different from this generation because of variation of natures and genetics.
What I am trying to say is that lives are not ours. Nothing are ours. They belong to nature. We will not own any property permanently because we have to leave them one day. The things which can remain to the next generation is our good doing while we are alive in the world. Then try to live longer in this world by practising good things for life and society. Let our goodness remain as the positve memory to our children. They are such as giving, helping, offering, forgiving, thinking positively etc. The great things in our lives are forgiveness and giving. For example, you forgive a man who kill your lover or the army give lives to their nation. Teach our children too.
If you have a cellular phone which can be used generally, that you are happy enough, but if you have a second one which is the best model, this time you won't be happy because you may want more or a better model again. Other case, you are survived with a good family, a moderate condition of house and car with some money for a living and saving, by which every family member are in good health. This is a normal life, and it is called happiness [happy to be normal]. On the contrary,if your dream is more than you can made, you have to work harder, stay at the office every day and night and are not close to the family again until get serious illness which is hard to be treated or to recovered. Finally in this case, one thing you want to make a wish, is coming back to the normal life as being before. These two stories teach us to stop our demand. Be happy with things we can have and don't demand a thing that is too far to get by capability. Do stop excess demanding. Lead your life with things you can obtain intelligently. This does not mean to stop wishing to get progress in life but stop trying to obtain too over luxury which bring trouble. If you have enough money to go to Hawaii that is a heaven to get there, don't waste your time to wait for extending serious work until time is not provided, only for getting more and more money. You may never go to Hawaii because of postponement. Just go to Hawaii and have fun.
วันพฤหัสบดีที่ 24 มีนาคม พ.ศ. 2554
My daughter is coming back home
April is going to be my busy month because my daughter and her family are coming back home from Los Angeles. They would be in Thailand for about 3 weeks. Now, they have got a new member, almost one year old boy, his name is Liam. We have been watching his progressive growth in Facebook and not long from now, we are going to touch him.
On April 3rd, we are going to my father hometown[Prachinburi] to visit our ancestor cemetery. It is the occasion of Chinese event called "Chengmeng". This event is calling the family members to visit their ancestor tombs for redecorating and feeding ancestor's spirits.
On April 9-10, we are going to Rachaburi where is my mother hometown. Again, to visit my mother ashes which have been kept in the base of the buddha statue in the temple of Wat Sawang Ar rom. This time is her birthday and the day of death. [April 3rd] We take this opportunity to offer food and facility to the monks in that temple and request the monks pray for blessing us. After that we are heading to Huahin to visit the famous beach town which has been well known before my birth. We are going to spend the night some where there and come back on the next day. On the way back, we may stop at Damnoensaduak, a famous floating market, and Ampawa, an other floating market.
Between April 13-17, it is Songkran Festival or Thai New Year. We plan to go to Chiangmai for playing water. The young people flow water to others and they have a lot of fun playing. The weather is very warm and it is good to get soaked all day.
This is the time for the young people come back home to their parents and family. The government announce Songkran Festival as also "old people day"
My daughter and family plan to get back to LA. on April 26th. We all will miss them particularly Liam. I don't know when or how long we are going to see them again. This is life. Nature of life make us meet, get together and then leave. We will wish that everyone in my family will get all good things and lead thier lives to the progressive ways. Wish them to be healthy and have some bright future. Chavalvut
On April 3rd, we are going to my father hometown[Prachinburi] to visit our ancestor cemetery. It is the occasion of Chinese event called "Chengmeng". This event is calling the family members to visit their ancestor tombs for redecorating and feeding ancestor's spirits.
On April 9-10, we are going to Rachaburi where is my mother hometown. Again, to visit my mother ashes which have been kept in the base of the buddha statue in the temple of Wat Sawang Ar rom. This time is her birthday and the day of death. [April 3rd] We take this opportunity to offer food and facility to the monks in that temple and request the monks pray for blessing us. After that we are heading to Huahin to visit the famous beach town which has been well known before my birth. We are going to spend the night some where there and come back on the next day. On the way back, we may stop at Damnoensaduak, a famous floating market, and Ampawa, an other floating market.
Between April 13-17, it is Songkran Festival or Thai New Year. We plan to go to Chiangmai for playing water. The young people flow water to others and they have a lot of fun playing. The weather is very warm and it is good to get soaked all day.
This is the time for the young people come back home to their parents and family. The government announce Songkran Festival as also "old people day"
My daughter and family plan to get back to LA. on April 26th. We all will miss them particularly Liam. I don't know when or how long we are going to see them again. This is life. Nature of life make us meet, get together and then leave. We will wish that everyone in my family will get all good things and lead thier lives to the progressive ways. Wish them to be healthy and have some bright future. Chavalvut
วันพุธที่ 16 มีนาคม พ.ศ. 2554
Come back again, Chavalvut
Hi, there, I come back again after leaving this blog for a while. This leave was because I had not been in any new place but the old ones repeatedly. I was afraid I had no picture of the new place. Today, I'd start with a letter to those of whom I really love and care. I want them read and think about my article many times.
To do merit, forgiveness is the best.
The objective of doing merit, we want to be happy and healthy in both body and mind. We believe that giving is merit such as giving food to the monks, giving money to the poors, or doing some donation etc. But the greatest give is forgiveness. After doing that, we will be happy in our mind. No furious mood, no negative thought, no unfriendly behaviour, etc. The principle is that we must forgive the ones by hearts not by words.
Friendliness.
If you are furious with people, people are so bad for you, you don't like to be friend with them, you think that you can live with your friends who serve your opinion but may be, they are only for entertaining, you could have some wrong friends. Friends that you are angry with may be true friends. People have both sides of good and bad. Don't look only at the bad side and reject them. If their bad side can be forgiven and try to look at the positve ways or at their good sides, you will be able to talk and be friend with all people, one day, you may be able to get some help from them when you need. Finally, don't judge people wrong, don't hate but love them. Everyone could be advantage for you. You can keep distant between you and anyone if you would not like to have company with, but make them love you first. If you stay with a family in a house, you must make a close relation to them, make them love you and help them everything including house works.
Don't waste your time, every minutes are valuable
Don't stay in your room all day and everyday, please come out to the world. Start to work for experience, any work. A person can not start working by being filled in a position you like if experience and skill are not available. You must learn from the lowest or easy positon first. Try to work as much as you can without bargaining of money or the doing, you must do anything in any position until you learn enough you can come out with your own skill, then getting promotion. Finally you can invest by your own with your talent.
Saving for your next expense and investment.
When you get 100, you may spend 70 and save 30 in the bank. Do it every times. You need money for further use and investment. If you don't have money for your own, where you can get it without any debt. You should explore your expense and cut the luxury down. You can eat everything but make choices of you health advantage[fruits and vegetable]. Don't throw food away. As well as saving other facilities e.g. electricity, soaps, detergents, etc. When you get out of the room, don't forget to turn off the light or any electronic equipments, or don't forget to shut down your lab top, then we have to pay for the none utilized electricity. Everything you are ignored to turn off or shut down in your room mean paying money. How hard to find money, think about it and don't pay it without utilize them, Paying money for free means of a big waste. Get tired from works for nothing
Keep you fit and healthy
Make yourself fresh and fit all the time. Taking a bath is a criteria for freshness. Do it as often as you like. Take care of your eyes, teeth, etc. These organs can not be cured when they are deteriorated. You have to save them by right and practical care. Try to exercise until sweating everyday. And don't try any addicted drugs or smoke
Dear guys,
You know whom I am writing to. You think I try to force you to follow my idea. You said I was always right. But these are fact and from experience. Please trust me and follow what I said. One day you will be understand and think of me.
To do merit, forgiveness is the best.
The objective of doing merit, we want to be happy and healthy in both body and mind. We believe that giving is merit such as giving food to the monks, giving money to the poors, or doing some donation etc. But the greatest give is forgiveness. After doing that, we will be happy in our mind. No furious mood, no negative thought, no unfriendly behaviour, etc. The principle is that we must forgive the ones by hearts not by words.
Friendliness.
If you are furious with people, people are so bad for you, you don't like to be friend with them, you think that you can live with your friends who serve your opinion but may be, they are only for entertaining, you could have some wrong friends. Friends that you are angry with may be true friends. People have both sides of good and bad. Don't look only at the bad side and reject them. If their bad side can be forgiven and try to look at the positve ways or at their good sides, you will be able to talk and be friend with all people, one day, you may be able to get some help from them when you need. Finally, don't judge people wrong, don't hate but love them. Everyone could be advantage for you. You can keep distant between you and anyone if you would not like to have company with, but make them love you first. If you stay with a family in a house, you must make a close relation to them, make them love you and help them everything including house works.
Don't waste your time, every minutes are valuable
Don't stay in your room all day and everyday, please come out to the world. Start to work for experience, any work. A person can not start working by being filled in a position you like if experience and skill are not available. You must learn from the lowest or easy positon first. Try to work as much as you can without bargaining of money or the doing, you must do anything in any position until you learn enough you can come out with your own skill, then getting promotion. Finally you can invest by your own with your talent.
Saving for your next expense and investment.
When you get 100, you may spend 70 and save 30 in the bank. Do it every times. You need money for further use and investment. If you don't have money for your own, where you can get it without any debt. You should explore your expense and cut the luxury down. You can eat everything but make choices of you health advantage[fruits and vegetable]. Don't throw food away. As well as saving other facilities e.g. electricity, soaps, detergents, etc. When you get out of the room, don't forget to turn off the light or any electronic equipments, or don't forget to shut down your lab top, then we have to pay for the none utilized electricity. Everything you are ignored to turn off or shut down in your room mean paying money. How hard to find money, think about it and don't pay it without utilize them, Paying money for free means of a big waste. Get tired from works for nothing
Keep you fit and healthy
Make yourself fresh and fit all the time. Taking a bath is a criteria for freshness. Do it as often as you like. Take care of your eyes, teeth, etc. These organs can not be cured when they are deteriorated. You have to save them by right and practical care. Try to exercise until sweating everyday. And don't try any addicted drugs or smoke
Dear guys,
You know whom I am writing to. You think I try to force you to follow my idea. You said I was always right. But these are fact and from experience. Please trust me and follow what I said. One day you will be understand and think of me.
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