To do merit, forgiveness is the best.
The objective of doing merit, we want to be happy and healthy in both body and mind. We believe that giving is merit such as giving food to the monks, giving money to the poors, or doing some donation etc. But the greatest give is forgiveness. After doing that, we will be happy in our mind. No furious mood, no negative thought, no unfriendly behaviour, etc. The principle is that we must forgive the ones by hearts not by words.
Friendliness.
If you are furious with people, people are so bad for you, you don't like to be friend with them, you think that you can live with your friends who serve your opinion but may be, they are only for entertaining, you could have some wrong friends. Friends that you are angry with may be true friends. People have both sides of good and bad. Don't look only at the bad side and reject them. If their bad side can be forgiven and try to look at the positve ways or at their good sides, you will be able to talk and be friend with all people, one day, you may be able to get some help from them when you need. Finally, don't judge people wrong, don't hate but love them. Everyone could be advantage for you. You can keep distant between you and anyone if you would not like to have company with, but make them love you first. If you stay with a family in a house, you must make a close relation to them, make them love you and help them everything including house works.
Don't waste your time, every minutes are valuable
Don't stay in your room all day and everyday, please come out to the world. Start to work for experience, any work. A person can not start working by being filled in a position you like if experience and skill are not available. You must learn from the lowest or easy positon first. Try to work as much as you can without bargaining of money or the doing, you must do anything in any position until you learn enough you can come out with your own skill, then getting promotion. Finally you can invest by your own with your talent.
Saving for your next expense and investment.
When you get 100, you may spend 70 and save 30 in the bank. Do it every times. You need money for further use and investment. If you don't have money for your own, where you can get it without any debt. You should explore your expense and cut the luxury down. You can eat everything but make choices of you health advantage[fruits and vegetable]. Don't throw food away. As well as saving other facilities e.g. electricity, soaps, detergents, etc. When you get out of the room, don't forget to turn off the light or any electronic equipments, or don't forget to shut down your lab top, then we have to pay for the none utilized electricity. Everything you are ignored to turn off or shut down in your room mean paying money. How hard to find money, think about it and don't pay it without utilize them, Paying money for free means of a big waste. Get tired from works for nothing
Keep you fit and healthy
Make yourself fresh and fit all the time. Taking a bath is a criteria for freshness. Do it as often as you like. Take care of your eyes, teeth, etc. These organs can not be cured when they are deteriorated. You have to save them by right and practical care. Try to exercise until sweating everyday. And don't try any addicted drugs or smoke
Dear guys,
You know whom I am writing to. You think I try to force you to follow my idea. You said I was always right. But these are fact and from experience. Please trust me and follow what I said. One day you will be understand and think of me.
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