There are many opinions about lives. Many people think of lives after death, going to the heaven, or returning back to the next lives, up to the doing, good or bad they are in this lives. They must go to hell if they commit some bad things. This is some belief.
I believe that, we are either good or bad, could reflect to us in this life, don't have to wait for other life. And also, they may not be reflect to us but they reflect to our children later when they grow up, such as if a child wants to work in the same office with his father and he gets a warm welcome because of his father's good performance before his coming. Other example, if one do some bad things, become poor, his child will recieve bad because of being poor too. I also believe that we are lucky or unlucky depend on our good or bad performance too. One example, there was a survey of the first prize lottery winners about 10 years ago and found that most winners were the good people who like to give or donate to the others. Therefore, when I get the bad things at the moment, I like to think back to my past and try to remind that what I have done and make me get these bad things now.
Lives are not ours. one is born, become a baby, later, the babyhood die and change to be a child, then the childhood die and then to be an adult, an oldie and then go to the end of life. From baby, child, adult, oldie, the image of different peroids also change, as well as mentality, idea, etc. All characters and looks change completely due to the environment and body growth and they can not get back to the beginning until the end as said above. Then next lives in next generations exit and circulate as the same procedure. The generation in the next 1,000 years may look completely different from this generation because of variation of natures and genetics.
What I am trying to say is that lives are not ours. Nothing are ours. They belong to nature. We will not own any property permanently because we have to leave them one day. The things which can remain to the next generation is our good doing while we are alive in the world. Then try to live longer in this world by practising good things for life and society. Let our goodness remain as the positve memory to our children. They are such as giving, helping, offering, forgiving, thinking positively etc. The great things in our lives are forgiveness and giving. For example, you forgive a man who kill your lover or the army give lives to their nation. Teach our children too.
If you have a cellular phone which can be used generally, that you are happy enough, but if you have a second one which is the best model, this time you won't be happy because you may want more or a better model again. Other case, you are survived with a good family, a moderate condition of house and car with some money for a living and saving, by which every family member are in good health. This is a normal life, and it is called happiness [happy to be normal]. On the contrary,if your dream is more than you can made, you have to work harder, stay at the office every day and night and are not close to the family again until get serious illness which is hard to be treated or to recovered. Finally in this case, one thing you want to make a wish, is coming back to the normal life as being before. These two stories teach us to stop our demand. Be happy with things we can have and don't demand a thing that is too far to get by capability. Do stop excess demanding. Lead your life with things you can obtain intelligently. This does not mean to stop wishing to get progress in life but stop trying to obtain too over luxury which bring trouble. If you have enough money to go to Hawaii that is a heaven to get there, don't waste your time to wait for extending serious work until time is not provided, only for getting more and more money. You may never go to Hawaii because of postponement. Just go to Hawaii and have fun.
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